Comments on: Learning About La Bella Part 2 http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/ Musings on life, love, and everything in between Sun, 08 Nov 2009 01:11:03 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Asabagna http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-247 Asabagna Fri, 12 Jan 2007 00:50:00 +0000 http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-247 The realist thing I've read for a long time. Like FN, you had me tearing up! I am about to be a Dad. Thanks for the life lesson.<br /><br />God Bless. The realist thing I’ve read for a long time. Like FN, you had me tearing up! I am about to be a Dad. Thanks for the life lesson.

God Bless.

]]> By: Tasha http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-245 Tasha Thu, 11 Jan 2007 15:57:00 +0000 http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-245 @Everyone- Thanks. It's been interesting to say the least dealing with him.<br /><br />@Creative- I hear you about actions being displays of character and I agree. My father is quite selfish and is a shithead, but I can't hate him for it. I don't have room in my heart to hate half the reason why I exist. Karma will deal with him. @Everyone- Thanks. It’s been interesting to say the least dealing with him.

@Creative- I hear you about actions being displays of character and I agree. My father is quite selfish and is a shithead, but I can’t hate him for it. I don’t have room in my heart to hate half the reason why I exist. Karma will deal with him.

]]> By: CreativeTDF http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-244 CreativeTDF Thu, 11 Jan 2007 15:32:00 +0000 http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-244 I am going to be the dissenter here please forgive me...OK? I think you are brave you know my personal stuff too and you have to forgive to moive on I have learned that...however, I don't think you can separate your farthers actions from who he is.<br /><br /><b>Actions are displays of your character...</b>your father, please excuse my language seems to be a selfish, shithead (sorta like my kids father). The fact that you can love him anyway proves that your mother raised a beautifula woman. I applaud you for that. I am going to be the dissenter here please forgive me…OK? I think you are brave you know my personal stuff too and you have to forgive to moive on I have learned that…however, I don’t think you can separate your farthers actions from who he is.

Actions are displays of your character…your father, please excuse my language seems to be a selfish, shithead (sorta like my kids father). The fact that you can love him anyway proves that your mother raised a beautifula woman. I applaud you for that.

]]> By: Enigma http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-240 Enigma Wed, 10 Jan 2007 15:50:00 +0000 http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-240 First time commenting. I am just saying more of the same that everyone else has said, you are strong, and yes, without a doubt forgiving a person is the way to go to move on from what they do/did. First time commenting. I am just saying more of the same that everyone else has said, you are strong, and yes, without a doubt forgiving a person is the way to go to move on from what they do/did.

]]> By: Gunfighter http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-239 Gunfighter Wed, 10 Jan 2007 15:45:00 +0000 http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-239 Great job, Tasha!<br /><br />I drafted a similar post for my blog. Maybe I should post mine, too.<br /><br />GF Great job, Tasha!

I drafted a similar post for my blog. Maybe I should post mine, too.

GF

]]> By: field negro http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-237 field negro Wed, 10 Jan 2007 13:36:00 +0000 http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-237 Great Post, let me negotiate the book deal for you :)<br /><br />On a real, you had me tearing up. <br /><br />Way to survive! Great Post, let me negotiate the book deal for you :)

On a real, you had me tearing up.

Way to survive!

]]> By: aulelia http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-236 aulelia Wed, 10 Jan 2007 10:53:00 +0000 http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-236 this was a really powerful post; you are a brave girl. it takes more strength to let sleeping dogs lie than to be angry and you have found it in you to do that so you are already a better person than him.<br /><br />fathers and daughters are relationships that are so complex yet co-exist with how we feel as women and how we see relationships with men. dealing with hardships with a father or even grief of a lost father is enough to show me that a parent does have a certain amount of control in how we see ourselves but it comes to a point when we take over and thank god for that. this was a really powerful post; you are a brave girl. it takes more strength to let sleeping dogs lie than to be angry and you have found it in you to do that so you are already a better person than him.

fathers and daughters are relationships that are so complex yet co-exist with how we feel as women and how we see relationships with men. dealing with hardships with a father or even grief of a lost father is enough to show me that a parent does have a certain amount of control in how we see ourselves but it comes to a point when we take over and thank god for that.

]]> By: mocha.barbie http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-235 mocha.barbie Wed, 10 Jan 2007 07:19:00 +0000 http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-235 you are an inspiration!<br /><br />i hope one day to be able to forgive those who have hurt me.<br /><br />great post you are an inspiration!

i hope one day to be able to forgive those who have hurt me.

great post

]]> By: jerzeygyrl http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-234 jerzeygyrl Wed, 10 Jan 2007 00:54:00 +0000 http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-234 I agree, it is a good thing to forgive. I held a grudge against my mother for 10 years after my father died. I love this post. You come with it everytime. <br /><br />Ya doin your thing. <br />I know he wishes he was there for you as a positive in your life through all your success.<br /><br />It seems like you used the negative and maked it your positive. I did the same thing. You can't let things tear you down. Use it as your motivation... <br /><br />: ) I agree, it is a good thing to forgive. I held a grudge against my mother for 10 years after my father died. I love this post. You come with it everytime.

Ya doin your thing.
I know he wishes he was there for you as a positive in your life through all your success.

It seems like you used the negative and maked it your positive. I did the same thing. You can’t let things tear you down. Use it as your motivation…

: )

]]> By: TNDRHRT http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-233 TNDRHRT Tue, 09 Jan 2007 21:39:00 +0000 http://labellanoire.wordpress.com/2007/01/09/learning-about-la-bella-part-2/#comment-233 Forgiveness creates a pure heart. This is a great post! Forgiveness creates a pure heart. This is a great post!

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